Mastering Anxiety: Practical Tips to Find Calm and Take Control
Stephanie Strouth • June 27, 2025
Anxiety is a natural response from our body and mind, preparing us for situations that may bring uncertainty or fear, often triggered by stress, but sometimes, it can feel like it’s controlling us more than we are controlling it.
Some signs that you might be experiencing anxiety include feeling uneasy, fearful, or excessively worrying. These feelings are common, especially if you’re facing a big event or project. Anxiety can bring not only mental symptoms but also physical symptoms, making it a complex experience. Remember, you don’t have to manage these feelings alone—speaking with a mental health professional, such as an anxiety counselor or therapist, can provide guidance and support.
Symptoms of Anxiety: What to Look For
Anxiety symptoms vary for each person, and everyone copes differently. Symptoms can be broadly categorized into psychological and physical types, and you may experience both to varying degrees. If you’re considering seeing a therapist for anxiety or are wondering if you have anxiety, here are some common symptoms to look out for:
Psychological symptoms:
Feeling restless or on edge – Constantly feeling tense or "wired."
Difficulty with focusing – Anxiety can make it challenging to concentrate or complete tasks.
Persistent feelings of worry or unease – Worrying over many things, even small or unlikely events.
Irritability – Feeling unusually short-tempered or easily frustrated.
Overthinking – Spending too much time analyzing situations or replaying events in your mind.
Struggling to let go of worries – Finding it hard to stop worrying, even if you want to.
Physical symptoms:
Fast heart rate – Your heart may race as your body responds to stress.
Rapid breathing – You might find yourself breathing faster, sometimes leading to shortness of breath.
Tense muscles/headaches – Anxiety can cause muscles to tighten, leading to aches or headaches.
High blood pressure – Physical stress responses can increase your blood pressure temporarily.
Gastrointestinal issues – Anxiety can affect your digestive system, causing nausea, stomachaches, or other issues.
Sweating/trembling – You may notice sweaty palms, trembling, or a general feeling of shakiness.
If you’ve been experiencing any of these symptoms, seeking anxiety counseling may be a helpful next step. Therapy can provide tools and techniques for managing these physical and mental signs of anxiety.
How to Cope with Anxiety: Techniques Used in Therapy
Learning to cope with anxiety is a key step toward managing it. While there is no one "correct" way to cope, each person finds different techniques helpful. Many anxiety counseling sessions focus on helping clients explore these strategies, providing a roadmap to find what works best. Exploring coping techniques online or through an anxiety counselor can be a great start. If you find one method isn’t working for you, don’t be discouraged; an anxiety therapist can work with you to discover other approaches. Reaching out to a mental health professional is one of the most effective ways to navigate anxiety, and we encourage you to connect with therapists who can offer personalized support.
Effective Coping Strategies for Anxiety Relief
Here are some commonly recommended anxiety management techniques, often taught in counseling sessions:
The 3-3-3 Rule – Identify three things you can see, three sounds you can hear, and move three parts of your body (such as your fingers, arms, and legs). This exercise grounds you in the present moment, helping to break the cycle of racing thoughts and promote mindfulness.
Meditation – Practicing meditation can calm the mind and reduce anxiety by focusing your attention on breathing or a particular word or phrase, leading to a relaxed state that counters stress responses.
The 4-7-8 Rule – Inhale for four seconds, hold the breath for seven seconds, and exhale for eight seconds. This breathing technique helps slow your heart rate, encouraging a sense of calm by activating the body's natural relaxation response.
Establish a Routine – A consistent daily routine can provide stability, making it easier to manage anxiety. Knowing what to expect each day helps reduce uncertainty and can provide a sense of control over your life.
Limit Caffeine Intake – Caffeine can increase heart rate and jitteriness, which can amplify feelings of anxiety. Reducing caffeine helps to avoid these physical symptoms that may otherwise exacerbate anxious feelings.
Learn Your Triggers and Avoid Them – Identifying what situations or experiences trigger anxiety allows you to prepare for them or avoid them when possible, reducing unexpected stress.
Try Exposure Therapy – While avoiding triggers can sometimes be helpful, there are situations where working through fears is necessary to move forward. Exposure therapy allows you to gradually and safely face these fears, building resilience and strengthening your ability to manage challenging moments.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) – CBT focuses on understanding and changing patterns of thinking that contribute to anxiety. It’s a highly effective treatment offered by licensed therapists, providing practical tools for reframing thoughts and managing anxiety.
Journal Your Thoughts and Feelings – Writing down your thoughts and feelings allows you to release pent-up emotions and gain insights into your anxiety triggers. Journaling can also be a helpful way to track progress over time.
Do Things You Enjoy – Engaging in activities you enjoy can provide a healthy distraction from anxiety and boost mood. Doing things you love reinforces positive feelings, helping to balance the negativity that anxiety may bring.
Implementing these strategies can create a toolkit to help you manage anxiety, both during moments of stress and over the long term. If you’re interested in more structured support, connecting with a therapist or counselor specializing in anxiety can offer deeper insights and effective tools. Remember, finding what works best for you may take time, but every step you take brings you closer to greater peace and well-being.
If a therapist isn’t your jam, Anchoring Hope is bringing some cool options your way!
On Saturday November 16th at 6pm, our Wise, VA Office will be offering an anxiety-focused workshop reviewing these techniques and more!
OR, if you don’t really care for peopling, you can always download our app! Search your Apple Store for “Anchoring Hope” to gain access to several counselor-approved coping skills! Google users can also access the app by downloading the Passion.io app and searching for “Anchoring Hope”! Reach out if you need help to stephanie@ahchope.com .
Also, this blog was written by Hope Hall & Edited by Stephanie Strouth. Stephanie just couldn’t figure out how to add Hope as an author to the account because the process is unnecessarily complicated.
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First, I’d like to thank the organizers of the Crimes Against Children Conference in Virginia Beach for the opportunity to speak on such an important and sensitive topic. During the session, we focused on understanding and supporting non-offending spouses when a child abuse case comes to light. Because time was limited, this post offers additional guidance for professionals—therapists, advocates, investigators, lawyers, and victim-witness specialists—on how to respond in ways that minimize harm and promote recovery. When a parent or spouse is revealed to have abused a child, the non-offending partner often experiences profound shock, grief, betrayal, and social isolation. How we as professionals respond in those early days can dramatically affect that person’s ability to stabilize, support their children, and engage safely with the investigative and healing process. Each case is unique, so every response must be trauma-informed and grounded in compassion. Before the Disclosure: Recognizing Four Subtle Relationship Warning Signs Professionals often ask, “How could someone not have known?” These early patterns are easily misinterpreted as normal relationship quirks rather than abuse precursors. 1. Secrecy and Evasiveness Hidden communications, vague explanations about time away, or “you’re overreacting” responses to basic questions are early warning signs. Over time, this secrecy isolates the partner and erodes trust. 2. Public vs. Private Persona Many offenders maintain a spotless public image including community volunteering, devoted parent, or leader in various capacities, while privately showing manipulation, control, or unhealthy interests. 3. Gaslighting and Reality Distortion Victims are conditioned to doubt their perceptions through statements like “you’re paranoid” or “you’re remembering wrong.” This cognitive dissonance keeps them silent and compliant. 4. Empathy Exploitation Abusers often weaponize pity, framing themselves as misunderstood or traumatized. The spouse’s empathy becomes the mechanism that keeps them from confronting or reporting. Recognizing these dynamics helps professionals interpret behaviors that may seem confusing in hindsight. For Therapists Primary Goal: Provide stabilization, trauma recovery, and parenting support. Assess trauma and self-blame. Validate that manipulation and grooming can deceive even highly perceptive partners. Focus on safety first. Stabilization and grounding skills should come before deeper trauma work. Support the parenting role. Help rebuild trust and communication with children. Collaborate with other systems. With consent, coordinate with investigators or attorneys to align with safety planning. Normalize protective coping. Dissociation, numbness, or “function mode” often serve as temporary survival strategies—avoid pathologizing these early responses. For Advocates & Service Providers (In addition to Advocates, this includes case managers, clergy, medical staff, educators, and social workers.) Primary Goal: Bridge practical assistance with compassionate listening. Offer one consistent point of contact. Familiarity reduces chaos and fear. Provide clear, step-by-step guidance. Court navigation, safety planning, and resource linkage are stabilizing. Validate complex grief. They’re mourning both the partner and the imagined life they’ve lost. Screen for financial and housing needs. Many were financially dependent on the offender. Connect them to peers. Survivor or support groups for non-offending partners reduce isolation and shame. For Investigators Primary Goal: Minimize secondary trauma while obtaining accurate information. Use trauma-informed interviewing. Replace “How could you not know?” with “Can you walk me through when you first became aware of…?” Acknowledge the shock. A small statement like “I know this is overwhelming” humanizes the process. Explain procedures and rights. Outline what to expect and what information can or cannot be shared. Coordinate early with advocates. Immediate referrals to victim-witness staff or counseling reduce fear and confusion. Avoid unnecessary detail. Graphic information retraumatizes; share only what is relevant to the case. For Lawyers (Defense, Family, GAL, or Victim-Side) Primary Goal: Protect legal interests while minimizing harm. Clarify that cooperation ≠ complicity. The spouse is often a secondary victim, not a co-conspirator. Explain rights and reporting obligations. Address confidentiality, privilege, and custody laws in plain language. Advocate for child safety. Request supervised visitation or trauma-informed evaluations where appropriate. Coordinate with mental health providers. Align legal strategies with therapeutic safety plans. Avoid jargon. Clear, calm explanations reduce anxiety and increase cooperation. For Victim-Witness Advocates Primary Goal: Provide emotional continuity and navigation through the legal system. Be the anchor. One steady point of contact helps offset the instability of multiple agencies. Prepare them for court processes. Explain timelines, hearings, and victim compensation. Normalize conflicting emotions. Anger, guilt, and compassion can coexist. Help address practical needs. Support access to emergency funding, transportation, or housing. Encourage long-term connection. Healing continues long after court concludes. Shared Best Practices Across All Roles Adopt a non-blame stance. Treat the spouse as a survivor of secondary trauma, not a failed gatekeeper. Promote agency and choice. Ask before sharing information or making referrals. Maintain confidentiality boundaries. Transparency builds trust. Encourage multidisciplinary collaboration. Warm handoffs reduce retraumatization. Recognize chronic stress. Healing from betrayal and abuse is a long-term process. Guidelines for Stabilization and Recovery 1. Immediate Emotional and Psychological Support Encourage trauma-informed therapy and survivor groups. Normalize guilt, anger, and confusion as trauma responses. 2. Safety and Protection Develop physical and digital safety plans. File restraining orders if harassment or intimidation occurs. 3. Legal and Custody Considerations Consult attorneys familiar with abuse cases. Document all communications and behaviors carefully. 4. Parenting and Helping the Children Provide specialized trauma therapy for children. Reinforce supervised visitation and open, age-appropriate communication. 5. Social and Community Rebuilding Address stigma and self-blame. Encourage rebuilding identity and autonomy through education, work, and personal growth. Closing Thoughts Supporting non-offending spouses requires compassion, patience, and coordination. 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